Giving Head
Here are ten tips for blowing his mind while you’re blowing his cock.
Most guys are easy to please when it comes to getting head, right? If the question is about whether he’d like some, the answer is always yes. Granted, you might find the occasional connoisseur, but if you go for quantity over quality you can’t go wrong.
1. Men LOVE spontaneity – especially when it comes in the form of a blow job. Spontaneously offering head does something psychological to a man that I (as a woman) can’t explain but I’ve sure seen the effect often enough to know it works wonders.
2. Unless there’s a reason against it, like you’re in a public location, it’s preferable you’re naked. If you’ve got nice tits, show ‘em. Men don’t really care what size they are once they’re naked and in front of them. Undress slowly, while running your hands over your skin. Or ask him to slowly take your clothes off. Then do his slowly, while gently caressing his skin. And leave the lights on, even if they’re low. Men are visual creatures.
3. Do a bit of light teasing with your tongue. You can always start by sucking on your finger while locking your eyes on his. Before you get to his happy bits, slowly and gently lick each side of his inner thighs. Be careful not to touch his cock or balls: You want to build anticipation! Be creative, and look up at him with a dirty smile while your teasing him.
4. Continue the gentle teasing on his cock and balls. Some men don’t like their balls touched, but he will let you know. Just be gentle with them, and he will probably enjoy it. Get one in your mouth and very gently suck on it. One important thing about cocks is that you can push them up (against his stomach), but it might hurt him if you push it down too hard (some guys love this, though).
5. With your tongue, wind your way up from the base of his cock, swirling it around the shaft. Open your mouth wide when you get to the top – but don’t let your lips or tongue touch him as you go down… this is more of the teasing. Just when you’ve got it as far into your mouth as it will go, clamp your lips down tight and suck as you slowly pull up.
He should be moaning with intense pleasure about now. And you’ve hardly done anything.
6. Now you’re ready to get done to it… make sure both your hands are wet, and so is his cock. Place one or both hands around his cock, depending on the size, and move them simultaneously up and down in time with your mouth as you suck him. You may want to use one hand to caress his balls at the same time.
7. Take your time, alternating pressure and speed. Gauge his responses to your movements. See what he likes. Ask him which feels better and best. If you think he’s close to coming, slow down a bit and let him settle down. Maybe rub your tits on him. Then pick up the pace again.
8. While your back to sucking and the up and motion, as you come back up swirl your tongue around the tip – with your mouth still on it and sucking. This will tickle him like crazy. At the same time, give a little extra pressure on the hand that’s following your mouth. This emphasizes the moment. You can also bring the hand all the way up and swirl it over the tip (your mouth is now off for a few seconds) – this is even more pleasurable for him. For some men, it’s just too much.
9. When the big moment arrives, you can pick up speed or pressure – but just a bit. Other than that, don’t change what you’re doing! That could blow the moment (pun intended). When he’s ready to come deep throat him as much as you can and keep sucking. (This is of course assuming you swallow. If you don’t swallow it’s ok, but be sure to tell him before hand so he’s not trying to push on your head. (Men: Don’t push on our head, or use our ears as handles. Tips for Men Getting Head will be coming soon!)
10. Enjoy the experience, it’ll turn him on even more if you’re loving what you’re doing.
And remember, always be safe. Value yourself – you’re worth it!
What tips do you have? What move do you have that makes men melt? Men, what move did someone do to you that you’ll never forget?
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A huge turn-on for me is for the lady sucking my cock to get me to cum in her mouth and then for her to give me a deep kiss and share my cum with me so we can both swallow it at the same time.
I’ve known two ladies, at different times, who had an intense desire to give head, but they didn’t want me to kiss, caress, or touch them in any way. They insisted that I just lie as still and quiet as possible and enjoy it. When I ejaculated they would experience a volcanic orgasm as my warm cum shot down their throats. I’ve always wondered if very many other women were the same way.
I’m all for mutually pleasuring each other, but I’m not a big fan of “69″… the giving and the receiving each use different hemispheres of the brain. That’s all well and good until you get them both going at once. Maybe it’s just me, but I feel like each activity is then only getting 50% of my attention. I prefer to devote my full attention to the activity at hand, so to speak.
I’m still wondering if very many other women are like those two ladies. In your experience do you know of any others?
I’m a hetero female so my experience has only included men.