A Sexy Scene Using The Foreplay Tips

In the previous post I listed Seven Sexy Tips For Fabulous Foreplay. I’m sure you’re able to get through Tips #1 and #2 without any help, so I’ll start at Tip #3: Undress her slowly.

You’ve kissed, or whatever, and it’s clear she wants to make love. Facing each other, look her in the eyes, and begin to slowly undress her, taking off out clothes before moving to underwear and bra. Let her stand there for a moment in just bra and panties while you appreciate the way she looks. Don’t talk, unless it’s a compliment about her body you just can’t hold back. Then take off her bra, then slowly slide down her panties. You should bend down to get them off her feet. Guide her hand to your shoulder for balance if she needs it.

This is the point to reign in your impulse to grab her hot zones. Remember the goal: Inducing the right neurochemicals in the right order for great sex. Slow and steady wins the race.

If you want, let her undress you at this point, also slowly and without any real touching or talking. Or stay clothed. Either way is good. There is something really sexy about being the naked, vulnerable one while your man is clothed but not rushing to touch you in a sexual manner. Just knowing your man is in control of his impulses makes us wet and want you more. Continue reading

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Seven Sexy Tips For Fabulous Foreplay

Do you want to have more sex? Do you want to have better sex?

I’m pretty sure you just yelled, “Yes”, at the screen.

The Art of Foreplay continues to perplex men. It’s not really their fault. It’s not taught in school, and movies portray foreplay rather poorly. Watch a movie and you think foreplay is a deep kiss, followed by removal of clothes, and then sex.

There is no foreplay in that scene. A deep kiss doesn’t count.

With the hope of bringing better sex to everyone, I’m going to list seven tips on foreplay, and then use them in a sexy scene. What I’m about to tell you is what gets me hot. Really hot. So hot in fact, I’m getting excited just thinking about it.

Foreplay 101: The Basics

1. Sex happens in the brain. No, really it does. The best sex happens when the neurochemicals are produced, or rather, induced in the right order. You get to induce them, that’s what foreplay is all about. You probably have no idea how much power you have, literally at your finger tips. You have far more control than you imagine. Men, this is the key to all our dreams. 

2. Foreplay is what happens between sexual acts, not before. This starts after the last sexual encounter and long before you get near the bed again. Believe it or not, it’s those little things that get a woman going and we consider them foreplay: Continue reading

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Holiday Sales on Sex Toys! $5 to $10 Off!

Hello Dear Wicked Ones,

To make your holiday shopping a bit easier and more economical, Graphic Details of Intimate Moments Sex Toy Store is offering a sale on ANY purchases from now through the end of December!

For $5 off orders of $25 or more use coupon code 5XMAS2011.

For $10 off orders of$50 or more use coupon code 10XMAS2011A. (Don’t forget the “A” at the end of this code.)

No one to buy a gift for? Well, don’t forget about yourself. If anyone deserves a new toy, it’s you!

I hope this makes your holidays a little warmer. ;)

Happy Holidays!

Rapunzel

 

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Don’t Buy These Sex Toys!

We’ve been gone a while, I know. Our humble apologies.

We were still busy testing toys for you, but came across several unworthy of your time and money. At first we weren’t going to mention them at all, but then decided you, our kind and wicked readers, might appreciate knowing what not to buy.

Mr. Marvelous has kindly provided his opinion of some toys to avoid.

Bad toy #1: Advanced Male Masturbator by California Exotic Novelties

I got this one on a lark, because see-through men’s toys are fun for girls, too. It looked fun enough and the vibe at the end looked really good at the time. Then it showed up. I remember pacing the floor, staring at it for about an hour thinking that it must be some
kind of joke. Ok, ha ha you got me. The problem? I wanted to try it and couldn’t! No, I’m in no way a penile giant. About average, and depending, thicker. Continue reading

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A Plethora of Pleasure

A volume of vibrators.

A ton of toys.

We’re in Pleasurists #127, and we’re quite pleased ;) Mr. Marvelous’ review of the Jumbo 11′ vibrator is included in this weeks Pleasurists.

Beauty on the Rocks by IVS

Beauty on the Rocks by IVS

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Jumbo 11 inch Massager | Sex Toy Review

Jumbo 11 inch Vibrator

Jumbo 11 inch Vibrator, pictured in purple, by California Exotics

The Jumbo 11in Massager, pictured in lavender, by California Exotic Novelties

Well, I have looked for a couple years now for old school thumper vibrators. They are really hard to locate beyond the 2 C-cell battery models. I was after something requiring D or C cell batteries with girth and length, and the heavy rumble of the 70s and 80s. Of course I looked through about 40 pages at the Graphic Details store because they have the best pricing. On a fluke, after coming up empty in all my other searches, I spotted one!

Ladies, if you’re trying to intimidate a toy shy guy – or even chase one off – this is the vibe for you. When I got the demo, all I could do for a few minutes was stare at it. It’s simply magnificent. I had a little daydream about this beauty on the nightstand in a small samurai sword style rack. Can you just imagine walking in and seeing it displayed just like a sword? Continue reading

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Remote Control Waterproof Bullet – Adult Toy Review

Remote Control Waterproof Bullet – by Pipedream Products

Sex Toy Review (and a tempting little scene ;) ) by our favorite Mr. Marvelous

Remote Control Waterproof Bullet by Pipedream Products

Remote Control Waterproof Bullet by Pipedream Products

Well, the good folks at GDIM have given me another review spot. This time I’m reviewing something that is not actually for orgasmic pleasure like the other things I have reviewed in the past; it’s for building the fantasy before the pleasure. Mechanical foreplay you might say.

They’re also aware I have purchased my fourth set of the same item. I have an absolute rule that toys are never shared. If a toy is used, it belongs to that person. Period. I keep actual shelf stock of many items and it’s very fun to have a woman pick from those toys, just like she was in her own personal toy store, and the cost to her is free.

Imagine the beautiful woman of your desire meets you for an evening out. She is dressed very sexy and her hair is gorgeous. A sexy dress, stockings, and heels. Her beauty is making your insides quiver, but you’re acting calm and cool. Until…. she cocks her head and closes her eyes part way, and reaches her hand out to give you the remote control. You take it not quite understanding. She winks slyly and says “turn it on” You do but notice nothing. She pulls your hand to her lower abdomen and you can feel the vibration. Then she pushes your hand away as you try to slide down her dress and touch her clitoris. She says ‘No, this is my game’.

You would want to play, right? Continue reading

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Picked Up in Pleasurists #119

My first ever sex toy review was picked up by Pleasurists. While Mr. Marvelous’ skilled and detailed reviews are often picked up, this was my first sex toy review and entry. I really enjoyed writing about the Dream Massager Ripple (the review is listed under Vibrators below, and is also the post previous to this one).

But mostly I enjoyed researching it. ;)

Pleasurists #119 is below…

Naked Fetish by FlopFlopBear

Naked Fetish by FlopFlopBear

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Dream Massager Ripple Vibrator | Sex Toy Review

The Dream Massager Ripple is a dream to use!

dream massager ripple blue

Dream Massager Ripple in blue.

I ordered one on a Wednesday, regular shipping ($5) from the vendor Muffs & Cuffs in New Jersey, and it arrived the following Saturday in California – only four days later!

It came lightening fast, and so did I. ;)

I have to confess, this is my first Rubber (Velvet) Cote toy and I’m in love with its smooth feel! Plus, the surface stays closer to room temperature than gel or hard plastic toys – none of that initial cold feeling on your warm lady bits.

As the name implies, it’s a nice “rippled” vibrator. The apex of the ripples are wide and far apart so there are three (almost like three stacked golf balls), with a fourth ripple completing the end where the speed control is. Its smooth Rubber Cote surface is phthalate free! I have a latex allergy so this surface is perfect for any fellow sufferers. The vibrator is 4.5 inches long, and a nice 1.5 inches wide. I chose this one specifically for it’s width and am very pleased with the feel.

There are approximately three speeds on the dial, but they’re all fairly close in range, and not separated by any “click” or stop. I’d call them “slow”, “medium-slow”, and medium”. It is a fairly quiet toy: your pets will hear it, but your neighbors won’t. It could be discreetly used in a noisy environment without detection, but as it has some weight to it, you’ll have to practice your Kegel exercises to keep it in place if you intend to be out and about with it, um, in. Continue reading

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More Sex Toy Reviews Than You Can Shake A

stick at.

What did you think we were going to say? ;) Now that we’ve got your attention… For Valentine’s Day our review of the Fleshlight Alien has graciously been included in Pleasurists latest edition. (See “Toys For Cocks” below.)

Pleasurists #117

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter.

Did you miss Pleasurists #116? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #118? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form and submit it before Sunday February 13th @ 11:59pm Pacific.

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